Today I feel confused, it’s like a lightening just strike me in the head.

What I think it is, isn’t. How come people think I am a serious person, that I only think in my work, when I think I’m balanced?.

 Is this true?

 Who am I?

  What happens if I relax myself? Does the world falls down?

I thought that I was a balanced person, and it turns out I’m not.

 If tomorrow were my last day on earth, how people will remind me? How my family will remember me? My parents? My daughters? My husband?

“La magia de pensar en grande” de Napoleon Hill

De “La magia de pensar en grande” de Napoleon Hill, un lindo pensamiento para un lunes en la noche…

1. Mantente fresco cuando otros estén furiosos y pierdan la cabeza.
Tú tienes el control sobre tus emociones, no lo pierdas. No se trata de no demostrar tu molestia, sino de hacerlo mesuradamente, sin después arrepentirte de una acción cometida en un momento de descontrol.

2. Recuerda que cada discusión tiene al menos tres puntos de vista:el tuyo, el del otro y los de los demàs. Siendo más versátil y viendo las cosas desde otra perspectiva enriqueceràs tu propio punto de vista.

3. Espera a calmarte antes de hablar.Ten en cuenta que la relación es más importante que la discusión. Dale más relevancia a las personas que a las opiniones.

4. Trata a toda persona con la cual tengas contacto como si fuera un pariente rico, de quien esperas ser incluido en su testamento.Nunca te arrepientas de tratar muy bien a la gente. Es el mejor negocio en todos los sentidos.

5. Busca el lado positivo y agradable, aun de las situaciones más complicadas y dolorosas.
Es una disciplina que te ayudará a pasar más fácilmente los momentos difíciles, y a convertir los problemas en oportunidades.

6. Establece el hábito de hacer preguntas y, sobre todo, de escuchar las respuestas.
Pregunta antes de reaccionar. Algunas veces disparamos y después preguntamos. También preguntamos, pero escuchamos para contestar, y no para tratar de entender.

7. No hagas o digas nada que pueda herir o hacerle daño a otra persona.
Aférrate al proverbio que dice que todo lo que uno haga, se devolverá. La gente no recuerda tanto lo que tú dices o haces, sino la intención con la que lo haces.

8. Sé consciente de la diferencia entre análisis amigable y crítica destructiva.
Observa si el propósito de tus palabras es ayudar, desahogarte o hacer daño.

9. Ten presente que si toleras a los demás, ellos también serán pacientes contigo en los aspectos no muy gratos de tu personalidad.

10. El verdadero líder sabe reconocer sus errores y aceptar responsabilidad.
No olvides que un conflicto bien manejado fortalece la relación, y te ayuda a aprender de las diferencias.

 

Secrets of the Law of Attraction

One of the secrets of the Law of Attraction is to follow those who have succeeded applying it, and learn from them.

You don’t have to create the wheel of attraction; you have to get on it because it’s moving.

Don’t bother trying to change a negative person, that’s not your problem. What you should do is to read and learn all you can to improve your life.

My advice for you is that if you want to fly like an eagle, you don’t have to be in a fish tank.

In order to use the Law of Attraction you must move away from toxic situations, like arguments, gossiping and false people. To use the Law of Attraction you must become a champion, a winner.

If you believe you can use the Law, you will!

Do you believe in yourself? Do you believe you can achieve your goals?

Do you believe that the life you have dream is expecting you?

If you don’t believe it, what are you waiting to believe in yourself? You are really valuable and unique in this Universe.

The secret of the Law of Attraction is to believe in yourself, in that way you will be bigger than any obstacle that will face you. And the only way to achieve it is by changing the way you think.

Just believe in your inner power.

Your reality is a reflection of your inner world.

Accept yourself

Most of the people use to say… “Nobody’s perfect, everybody has its weakness and problems.”

Do you know that imperfections are illusions?  There aren’t real.

You must see the perfection inside yourself. Your spiritual DNA is perfect.

I want you to think about it. Think in all the things you think are imperfections. Write them down, and then burn them.

Just watch the genie inside of you.

You must focus on that. And don’t look at the imperfections. Let them go.

They won’t let scars because they aren’t there. There are illusions.

See the perfection in every part of yourself. Just watch how your body works, your mind works.

Then look the perfection in everything that you do.

Say… “I’M PERFECT”…and start expressing that perfection in all that you do today.

I will like to share a statement that you can use when you don’t accept yourself:

“I accept myself, my body and my imperfections. I fix those things that can be fixed and embrace those that are out of my control. I love myself and I accept myself.”

Use this statement and watch how your own perception changes.

Find your life purpose

Last week I went to a lecture about The Secret. I must tell you the truth, I went because I needed “energy”, I’ve been through many things and I felt deflated. At the end of the night, my energy level was high enough to get on my road again.

The lecture was magical, even thought I knew almost everything he was saying. But there were two things that really amaze me: 1) I’m not along in my journey of self improvement (in that room where at least 300 more that felt just like me!) and 2) I must discover my purpose in this life.

So, in the next 90 days, I will work in discovering my life purpose, I’m going to use the techniques I learned in order to achieve my goal. I’m going to start tomorrow (what am I? the queen of procrastination?) No, I’ll begin tomorrow because today I’ll share the quotes that I like the most from this lecture.

  1. Always be grateful with God (the Universe or whatever you call it).
  2. Align your thoughts with God.
  3. Change the way you think.
  4. Your past has strengthened you.
  5. Restore your connection with God; restore your communication with God.
  6. What is your purpose? Listen to your heart.
  7. Mistakes are blessings because they left us a lesson.
  8. You must be in love with your life.
  9. Look at yourself with love.
  10. Nothing stays still; everything is changing.
  11. Transform your emotions.
  12. Don’t look at yourself as a victim; everything that happens to you is a lesson.
  13. Promise yourself to live extraordinarily.
  14. Think different; be creative; don’t let the doubt take away your confidence.
  15. Changing yourself is the hardest thing to do; but when you do it, you won’t regret it.
  16. Always think that money is on the way.
  17. Open your mind and heart to new things.
  18. Follow the leader you have inside.
  19. Forgiveness is transforming something bad into something good.
  20. If you know yourself and your dream (goal) is clear, nobody can stop you; the opportunities will come to you.

What can you do to have a great day?

In order to transform your day in the most wonderful one, worth living it, here are some advices:

  1.  Wake up with a positive attitude. Give yourself some time in the morning, 10 to 20 minutes, to be with you. Don’t turn on the TV or read the newspapers, don’t listen to the news on the radio, get away from bad news. Just enjoy this time with yourself, listen to music that makes you happy.
  2. Write down how wonderful your day will be. Visualize your day as you want it to be.
  3. Do some physical workout, relaxation or meditation exercises.
  4. Be grateful because you are alive and can start your daily routines. Start feeling love for everything you do.
  5. Show your positive attitude to everybody near you, even thought they don’t share your feelings, wish them today a GOOD DAY.
  6. Trough the day have positive thoughts like: “Today is a wonderful day for me, I feel fine and happy”.
  7. Recall and repeat trough this wonderful day how wonderful you are, focus on your strength (I can do it, I am intelligent, I achieve what I desire, I deserve prosperity, I am a winner, etc.)

 You can have a wonderful day today, it all depends on your mental attitude and how you control your thoughts.

Pluto, the dwarf planet

In a day like today, Pluto was discovered in 1930 by Clyde William Tombaugh (USA). Until 2006, it was consider the ninth planet of the Solar System, the smallest one.

However, since 2006 Pluto was reclassified as a “dwarf planet”. Actually is considered “the largest member of a distinct population known as the Kuiper belt”(Wikipedia).

A day in Pluto is equal to 6.39 Earth days.It’s orbital period is 248 Earth years and curiously, thru 20 years is closer to the Sun than Neptune. Actually, Pluto is leaving the Sun behind and will be next to it on September 2226.

Pluto’s largest moon is Charon. It’s almost as big as Pluto, that’s why there are treated sometimes as a binary system.

Aling your energy with your couple

Your frequent thoughts create your own reality, even your relationships.

If you’re having troubles in your relationship or haven’t found someone to share your life with, your vibration might be sending the wrong signal, which you don’t want to be satisfied in love.

But I have excellent news for you. You don’t have to keep suffering for love, you can align with the best of the world because the Universe gives everything you desire.

You just have to put  yourself in the same frequency of your ideal couple or the situation you want to live (if you already have a couple).

Here are 3 tips that will help you align your energy with your dream couple and transform your suffering into happiness:

1.  Become your dream couple: If you do, 3 things will happen:

  • You will stop feeling lonely and longing.
  • You will stop living for the future and loving you in the future (because that’s when you will have love or your couple will give you what you need); you will start to live the present and love yourself right now.
  • Jealousy, insecurity, doubts and fear will disappear, this feelings won’t attract the circumstances that make you experience the same over and over again.

2.  Keep away from you loneliness and neglect feelings because they keep away love: The feeling of loneliness is on the bottom of the vibration scale, many people feel it and they keep away what they want from their couples. This feeling keep apart people, brings neglect .

If you don’ have a couple right now, cherish your loneliness, because it may help you know yourself, to work on you and heal to become a better persona, so you can have the best couple you deserve to have.

When you realize the beauty you have inside, and enjoy yourself and your loneliness, you will eliminate what is avoiding you to meet your dream couple.

3.  Focus on love: Because of the Law of Attraction, we’re always attracting to our lives what we focus on. That’s why if you want to attract love you must focus on love that surrounds you.

Feel love when you caress your pet, when you watch romantic films, when you’re with children. Also feel gratitude for the happy couples you know.

You get what you ask, the love you are searching is searching for you, and the Universe wants you to be extremely happy.

 

Your eyes only see what your MIND wanted to see

Through all my years of inner search (I started around 2002), I had practice many techniques to find what I’m looking for (as U2 might said in that great song….I’m digressing!!!).

 

I’ve tried many mental control techniques (and still trying), but I have learned that techniques are important but the PRINCIPLES are more important.
 

Techniques may change; maybe something that is useful for me isn’t useful for you.


But Self Control Principles never changes.

One of the many principles I have learned through this years is
“Your eyes only see what your MIND wanted to see”

If you think in this principle you will find it’s true. How many times great opportunities dances in front of our eyes and we didn’t see them… because our mind is into something completely different.

If you really want to achieve a dream and be FREE, you have to focus your mind and thoughts on that dream,

You will find out that opportunities will begin to appear right in front your eyes, because you have attracted them to your life.

I wanted to share this thought with you.

I will keep in touch.

Don’t give up

Don’t give up, you still have time to achieve and start over again, to accept your shadows, to bury your fears, to drop ballast, to fly again.

Don’t give up because that is what life is about, to continue your journey, to pursuit your dreams, to unlock the time, to clean up the mess and look at the sky.

Don’t give up, please don’t give up, even though cold burns you, fear bites you, the sun hides and the wind stops, because there’s still fire in your soul and life in your dreams.

There’s always hope that things will get better, even if your future looks dark and you struggle against many difficulties.

Your inner strength will help you achieve any goal or dream you may have, will help you remove any fear that is stopping you, will open the road to the happiness, success and prosperity you deserve.

Please don’t give up, not today, nor never!!!